Is your husband cheating on you? Read How To Catch Your Husband Cheating!
You have a terrible feeling in your stomach that something isn’t right in your marriage, but you can’t put your finger on it, and you can’t shake the feeling. If you suspect your husband is cheating, then it may be time to start looking for signs that he is having an affair.
Don’t confront your spouse just yet. Read on and learn everything you need to know.
Women have powerful intuition and should trust their gut instincts. However, you should conduct your investigation and gather the facts before you confront him because he will most likely deny any affair to the bitter end if you come out and ask him, so you have to be prepared.
Don’t make accusations you cannot back up.
- 1 14 Rad Flags to Catch a Cheater
- 1.1 1. Is he putting a lot more effort into his appearance?
- 1.2 2. He doesn’t get back to you when he is out with friends.
- 1.3 3. He avoids emotional and physical contact with you.
- 1.4 4. Is he constantly mentioning a particular female name?
- 1.5 5. Is he very moody?
- 1.6 6. A good offense is the best defense.
- 1.7 7. Look for a change in your husband’s sex drive.
- 1.8 8. Look through his things like his car.
- 1.9 9. How much time is he spending on the computer?
- 1.10 10. Could you take a look at his cell phone?
- 1.11 11. What are the charges for a credit card?
- 1.12 12. His friends act differently towards you.
- 1.13 13. He’s planning to go to Puerto Rico while you are going to Los Angeles on vacation.
- 1.14 14. You don’t fight at all.
- 2 Summary
14 Rad Flags to Catch a Cheater
1. Is he putting a lot more effort into his appearance?
Suddenly, he is whitening his teeth, getting a new hairstyle, grooming his private parts, to name a few. He has also started to work out more, or he has even joined a gym.
He has changed up his wardrobe with younger, hipper styles? Maybe his new love interest is significantly younger than he is.
2. He doesn’t get back to you when he is out with friends.
Has he always been responsive when he was out with his friends, and now he is not responsive at all? If this is the case, he is hiding something.
3. He avoids emotional and physical contact with you.
Aside from the bedroom, he seems reluctant to kiss you. He no longer holds your hand, gives you hugs, touches your face, and so on.
He barely looks into your eyes, and he seems emotionally detached. He may feel like he is cheating on his new love interest, or perhaps he has just lost interest in you.
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4. Is he constantly mentioning a particular female name?
Subconsciously he is admitting he is an unfaithful spouse. It could only be an infatuation, but it could also mean your partner is cheating on you.
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5. Is he very moody?
Have you noticed that your husband is moodier than before? Do the slightest things set him off?
You look at him the wrong way, and he explodes.
He picks fights with you, seems angry, and is critical of you most of the time. He picks apart your clothes, weight, and way you speak and is generally unkind towards you.
Everything you do seems to annoy him now. He might be looking for reasons to justify his affair, or he might be comparing you to his new love interest.
6. A good offense is the best defense.
Is he accusing you of cheating without any good reason? To distract from his diddling, he may try to get you to refocus on his agenda. This is a form of gaslighting, where he focuses on you and not his misdeeds. If you are trying to defend yourself, it is impossible to focus on his misdeeds.
7. Look for a change in your husband’s sex drive.
Both more or less interest in sex can signal infidelity. Is he tired all the time and “not in the mood”.
Is he suddenly shy about taking his clothes off in front of you?
He may be trying to hide an unexplained bruise or scratch, or he may feel like he cannot share himself entirely with two different women.
Alternatively, has his sex drive increased dramatically, and have you noticed any new moves in the bedroom? He may have learned a few tricks from his new lover.
8. Look through his things like his car.
Are there any unusual hairs? For example, you have straight brown hair, and you find a few long curly blond ones. Is the chair adjusted differently to the last time you were in the car? Has he taken the child seat out for no particular reason?
Take note of the mileage. Look through his wallet for unexplained receipts. Perhaps he is taking his new love interest to excellent restaurants.
9. How much time is he spending on the computer?
Is he spending time on the computer, especially late at night? Check his browser search history. If he clears his browser history daily, this could suggest they communicate with their love interest.
Has he created a private email account? You will be able to see if he has not cleared his browser history.
Does he minimize the screen when you enter the room?
10. Could you take a look at his cell phone?
This is a big one. Does he take the phone with him everywhere he goes – even the bathroom?
When you have the opportunity to get a hold of his android phone, try and look through it.
You can check:
- text messages,
- call log,
- photos, and videos,
- social media,
- location history,
- and much more.
If he is possessive about his phone, you may have to wait until he falls asleep. Check his phone to see if he is deleting his text history. Most people do not delete texting history unless they have something to hide.
Check to see if he has joined any dating site or he has any dating apps such as Zoosk, Ashley Madison, or Tinder, to name a few.
Also, check if he has any instant messaging apps such as WhatsApp, Viber, or Kik. He could be using these as a secret way of communicating.
Did you know? There are also spy apps like mSpy that you can put on his phone that will track all of his texting, phone calls, phone location, and even record his voice calls so you can find out exactly what’s going on. This way, the truth will be indisputable.
11. What are the charges for a credit card?
You may notice things on your credit card statements that you don’t recognize. Ask him nicely about the charges on the credit card, and if he is trying to avoid the topic or doesn’t know where these charges are coming from, this might be the sign that your spouse is cheating on you.
12. His friends act differently towards you.
While he may be covering his infidelity tracks well, there will always be one weak link in his buddy network. You may notice a difference in the conversation or interactions between his buddies. This could be because they know more than you do.
13. He’s planning to go to Puerto Rico while you are going to Los Angeles on vacation.
Sometimes, separate vacations can be healthy for a couple. But they can also cause problems in relationships. It could indicate that you are growing apart or that your partner is “accidentally on intentionally” trying to hook up in another country.
14. You don’t fight at all.
It is not hatred that is the opposite of love; it is indifference. If you are constantly trying to get your way and your husband is giving up on things that would typically be a fight, he doesn’t care about the relationship anymore. Healthy marriages are built on a lively, passionate discussion that involves both spouses.
If you think your husband is cheating on you, he probably is. Ultimately the number one sign that someone is cheating on you is your intuition. However, your gut isn’t necessarily foolproof.
While checking off one sign alone isn’t a reason to call off the relationship, you may have some serious cause for concern if there are several in play.
Conduct your investigation; it’s better to determine if you are being cheated on now rather than 1, 2, or even ten years down the line.
Catching a cheating spouse it’s not an easy task, so be patient and make sure you get all the proof before confronting him.
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